During Puddle Friday '08, I called one
oldest homies, Mean Sexy. She brought
it straight to my dome.
She said, "listen, you failed, school didn't work out
the way you expected, and regardless of whether this
man is in your life or not, YOU have to choose what you
want.
I was like "ouch".
She continued "Listen, I just failed my drivers test,
and I failed my Ph.D test. But guess what. Thats life.
People fail sh-t. I will take them both again.
Honestly, I don't feel like you have been living
in the present. You spend your free time and holidays flying
back and forth. If you want to move to Dallas, move. If you
want to stay, stay. If you want to be in transition, do that. But
choose something and move forward."
Truth be told, I didn't want to hear ANY of that sh-t.
But, one thing that I know for sure, old school
homies EARN the right to say the sh-t to you that
you don't want to hear.
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Are you okay with telling your friends
things that they don't want to hear?
Why or why not? Have you done it recently?
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